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A Tale of two Cities

Bill Fogarty wonders aloud why one city is labeled "the good" and another is the subject of "bad mouthing" by the International Media and some visitors.Perhaps, as he suggests, a keen eye and an ear to the ground will reveal that there really isn't much difference. The cities of Toronto and Bangkok are as far apart culturally as they are geographically.
Or are they? I recently took a trip to the big city on the shores of Lake Ontario where I lived and worked for about 20 years.

Lord, it was cold. Viciously biting winds swirled along Yonge St., and ripped through my leather jacket as if it was flimsy cotton. And, although the spotless streets and decently flowing traffic were a far cry from the chaos, confusion and traffic of Bangkok, where I live and work now. I longed for the reassuring blanket of tropical humidity and the warm smiles offered by the locals, regardless of their financial situation or status.

Well let me correct myself there, as, even in what is billed as "the land of smiles", there seem to be damn few of those coming from people who are arrogant enough to inch their Mercedes Benzes' solo through the clogged streets of the Thai capitol. Money and possessions in abundance seems to breed arrogance regardless of the corner of the world. Oh well, something I probably will never have to worry about. The money and possessions bit I mean.

These two cities probably have more in common than even they are aware of. There are many similarities, a surprising amount of sameness when one scratches beneath the surface of the "yuppie paradise" on the lake. BKK and "Taranna" each boast a sub-culture not so apparent to the casual observer. But even closer scrutiny will reveal that one of these underground lifestyles is as cruel and biting as a North wind - while the other, although far from desirable, is much more bearable, and within it is nothing less than a family structure.

I refer the reader to the sounds of the cities to make my point. So much is revealed about the core of any big city by the sounds of life and living coming from the people who inhabit it. So much can be read into the tone of the voices, the pitch, the shriek of fun or the sigh of despair.

To see what I mean, go to Patpong once or twice during your visit to BKK why don't you? Pick yourself a table outside one of the bars on the street where they have the shopping stalls, grab a beer, and look…. and listen. Most of all listen.At the right time, say around seven in the evening, this street, which is a normal business artery during the day, comes truly alive at night. Shopping stalls are being set up to the cacophony of traditional Thai music and the latest western hit parade. High pitched, good-natured bantering between vendors only adds to the blend.
Go- go girls, many with a preview of the night's music already blasting into their brain by means of private stereo injections, make their way to their respective showcases to gyrate to the very same music for the benefit of largely foreign audiences. Doormen and ladies clap their hands for attention, and shout the financial rewards of "happy hour" to passers by. The latter say almost nothing but almost always proffer a quaint, superior little smile as if to say "aren't these little street urchins cute". But listen closely dear reader. Do you hear any hint of intimidation in the voices, any trace of despair?

The symphony of sounds on Toronto's main street is far different. Even menacing. The clapping of the hands heralding the happy hour is replaced by the consistent cadence of "spare some loose change sir?" being repeated constantly at 10 meter or so intervals as one passes the rows of panhandlers on Yonge St. the city's main downtown artery. Huddled against the cold, there is no joy on these faces, no spark in the eyes.
Young and old, male and female, sane or not, the plight is desperate and made more so by the chill of the November wind. Survival is everything, and anyone will be taken down to achieve it. There is little, if any camaraderie here. Perhaps you might like to practice your broken field running on the way to work each morning as you "two step" your way around the scores of homeless lying on the sidewalks, as oblivious to them as they are to you. Where are their homes? Their families? Their friends? Where indeed?

And pick up the tabloid Toronto Sun. The last 12 pages or so of classified advertisements show head and shoulders shots of pretty, young girls and shout of an indoor bar-sport called "lap dancing".

It seems the city fathers recently deemed that it is OK for nubile, scantily dressed young things to sit and squirm on a punter's lap (which one assumes comes complete with an eager member) but woe betide anyone who actually attempts to, er, do the deed, as it were. Will someone please tell me how this is any different from go-go dancing? You're right! Perhaps the latter is less hypocritical.So what drives the sub-cultures? On one side of the ocean the lust for drugs plays a large role. On the other side a life away from the backbreaking labour of the rice paddies, and a dream of a better life are contributing factors. If the drugs come into play, it is usually later on, after the die has been cast, as it were.

But the banter in Bangkok between the citizens of the alternative lifestyle is free, friendly, and easy. This extends to visitors with whom they come into contact. With such good sounds, good vibrations, one could easily be deceived into thinking that they are even enjoying themselves. But you could never be so naive as to think a junkie freezing his or her ass off on the mean streets of "Toronto The Good", or any other western city for that matter, is having any fun at all.

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